LOVE MAPS BUILD CONNECTION:
Today you can get to know each other more deeply!
What are love maps? Check out the GOTTMAN CARD DECK APP! “Love maps refer to how well you know your partner--how detailed the map in your mind is of your spouse's life. Good friends know each other well. They talk about what is going on in their lives and how they feel about it. They ask open ended questions to find out more about how the other person thinks and feels. The map of their partners world is very detailed. The goal is to UNCRITICALLY understand each other's views and feelings about things important to them.
Deepening ones love maps isn't just an intellectual exercise because when you share with each other, it draws you closer emotionally. It keeps you connected..it helps you feel valued, appreciated and cared about. "Without such a love map, you can't really know your spouse. And if you don't really know someone, how can you truly love them?” —John Gottman